Opening Statement
Do you ever stop and think why there are people, who look like they light up a room? I used to think of personality in the same way you do thoughts, or whether your hair is curly or if have freckles. But over time, I have realized that it is no different than a skill that could be refined by practice and experience. Here is some wisdom that experience has taught me.
The first stage of developing your persona is knowing yourself.
It sounds cliche but really it is true. I remember when i sat down and wrote a list of my strengths and weaknesses. It felt weird because nobody wants to admit they suck at something lol. However, it was illuminating. I started to realize that avoiding conflict was making my life harder in so many more areas. Only then could I start working on this.
Even the Unenjoyable Stuff
When was the last time you tried something new? I learned how to cook. Beware: I Am Unskilled Natural Yet, the experience of trying (and failing) to branch out helped me learn patience and perseverance qualities that have made a lasting impact on who I am. Learning more helps to increase or develop as a person, both in knowledge and character.
Remain positive (or at least attempt to be!)
I used to be all negative-minded It was only after I started looking for the positives that were in my life on purpose, did things start to change? It's not about ignoring the problems, but using them as growth opportunities. I would not dwell on a hard day at work, it was more like "What did I learn from this? It might sound cheesy but it works!
Focus on Communication(yes It's Not Only About Talking)
This certainly goes a long way in helping to clear the air and open up effective communication. Back then I thought because of my motor mouth, l was a master communicator. But over time, I've since found listening is just as if not more important. Now all I do is listen during conversations at my bedside and as a result, almost everyone can connect with me.
Understand, emote, and manage your emotions(It's natural to feel the same).
Emotional intelligence is not just a buzzword, it is an importance prerequisite for any personality development. There was a time when I struggled to keep it all in before I would finally explode. Now, I really try and be aware of my feelings as they come up so that sometimes in more difficult situations or with any confrontation etc., at least I am not reacting lash out right away. The software is still in the development, but showing result.
Create and Remain Consistent in Achieving Your Goals (But Also Cut Yourself Some Slack)
Goal-setting can often seem like a big deal, particularly to us chronic procrastinators. What I found, however, was that the larger goals were much less intimidating when broken up into smaller, doable steps. I had a hard time feeling proud about my small achievements along the way, but I kept note of them and could see how far I was coming when times got tough.
Change scares us all, but it is essential for growth.
I find that I tend to live and grow the most when doing things outside my comfort zone — tackling a new work challenge, and moving cities. Accepting change has made me adapt better, I grew more flexible and confident in my ability to tackle whatever life throws at me.
Summary
Personal growth is not about changing who you are; it is all about understanding yourself: every degree of everything that happens to the people around or whatever comes into your mind, and pull them out by trying to be at our best under any circumstances. It is a journey that never ends–and I am good with that. All of these form you: your experiences, obstacles and mistakes formed. Recommend To MeType Here…
Call to Action
I am curious to know what you think! Which weakness in your personality do you blame for the things that seem to be going wrong? Leave your comments and lets connect as we build together.
